Despite your intentions, there are some words that you simply canât use to describe people without it being at least a little triggering. Here are a few to eliminate from your vocabulary ASAP.
â Calling Someone âCrazyâ Or âInsane.â If you want to see someone actually go crazy, call them crazy. Otherwise, itâs best to avoid it. Itâs not only dismissive and aggravating, psychology professor Brenda Curtis also says it reinforces the idea that if someone isnât living up to normal standards that itâs some type of âmoral failing.â Just because someone acts differently than how youâd like doesn't make them a bad person.
â Suggesting Someone Is âOn The Spectrum.â First off, youâre not a psychologist so stop pretending to be one, and second, this is insensitive AF. There are a broad array of people with Autism Spectrum Disorder and to pretend like you know the extent of someoneâs circumstance is just plain ignorant.
â Calling Your Neat Co-worker âOCD.â No more jokes about your colleagues being âOCDâ because they love to keep their desks clean. When you do this youâre belittling a debilitating condition, and even if they donât show it, itâs probably hurting their feelings.
â Calling A Skinny Person âAnorexicâ Or âBulimic.â Remember this number the next time you want to comment about how you think the skinny person in your office is âanorexic.â Around 20 million women and 10 million men will suffer from an eating disorder at some point in their lives. So even if the person youâre roasting doesnât have one, the person youâre talking to about them might. Either way, not cool.
HT: LifeHacker