Everyone is going through something. You don't know a person's battle, or why they have done what they've done.
But let me tell you... Divorce with Kids, BRUTAL! A daily questioning of yourself and your decisions.
Myself, my ex, my child... we are all happier. We are STILL a family & treat each other as so. I respect the hell out of him as a person, partner, and most importantly as a Father.
But the guilt... will ALWAYS be there.
If you've been through it, know someone who has... or are thinking about it yourself, this is a must read.
Be kind to yourself & your ex. You are the only two who know what you've been through.