You don’t need to corner the Instagram thirst trap market to be attractive. In fact, there are plenty of traits that turn people on that have nothing to do with looks at all. Here are some things people find desirable that you don’t need to win the genetic lottery to have.
● Being Comfortable In Their Own Skin. Confidence is sexy as hell. Research has found that if you simply believe that you are attractive that it will also increase your desirability to others. No exercise, surgery, or filters needed. Just stone-cold confidence.
● Make Other People Feel Good. Researchers say that when someone makes us feel good, that positive interaction makes us want to share more of ourselves with them. In other words, if you want someone to get close to you, simply be nice.
● Have A Great Time. Spoiler alert: People like being around positive people. Studies show folks who are fun and have a sense of humor are more successful romantically, not only because of the positive emotions they give others, but because they’re also perceived to be better communicators. You might never be the hot one in your friend group, but that’s okay because you’re much better off being the fun one.
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